Looking for answers ...

So many people walk in and out of our lives. However there are some that go away leaving their mark behind. They don’t physically exist in our lives or come back ever but continue be so very alive in our memories. I wondered always why they stayed there forever. At times, bringing a smile on our face or tear to the eye or just making us miss them so much.

Then again, I realize that it’s not them who choose to stay back …they surely moved away long ago. It’s a choice we make to keep them alive in our hearts and memories.

Why do we keep them alive? It is coz they remind us of the most beautiful happy moments, or is it that give us hope that we did find love at some point or is it coz it’s just our weakness to not let go of them coz we believe we will never come across people like them in our life again.

Funnily the irony is that till we don’t let them go we do not allow the new to come into our lives. Even worse is when u know this fact and yet find it difficult to let go or keep retrieving back the moments…I am still to find answers to WHY we behave the way we behave . I hope the answers come to me soon …